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Whether as personal credo or acronyms for everyone to
live by, BDSM players might find this set of descriptions
useful.
1) SSC
2) RACK
SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual
by Elaine Miller
SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) is a frequently heard
phrase in BDSM communities, and its roots are deeply entwined with a
concern for ethics and, more to the point, fair play.
Safe
means that even when we play hard, we avoid causing true harm .
Sane means folks don't play when they're angry, intoxicated,
or otherwise not fully able to determine boundaries, and evaluate
risk.
Consensual means that players in a scene have provided
each other with knowledgeable and informed consent, and that every
participant has the right to stop the scene at any time through use
of a safeword or other pre-designated means.
Comments? email
talk at
elainemiller dot com.
SM ORIGIN of RACK: RACK vs. SSC
by Gary Switch
During a discussion of SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) on
the TES-Friends list, I proposed RACK (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink)
as an alternative. Here's my motivation: Nothing's perfectly safe.
Crossing the street isn't perfectly safe. Remember that it's
technically called "safer sex," not "safe sex."
If we want
to limit BDSM to what's safe, we can't do anything more extreme than
flogging somebody with a wet noodle. Mountain climbers don't call
their sport safe, for the simple reason that it isn't; risk is an
essential part of the thrill. They handle it by identifying and
minimizing the risk through study, training, technique, and
practice.
I believe that this approach will work better for
us leatherfolk than claiming that what we do is safe. We want to
foster the notion that we develop expertise, that to do what we do
properly takes skill developed through a similar process of
education, training, and practice.
Negotiation cannot be
valid without foreknowledge of the possible risks involved in the
activity being negotiated. "Risk-aware" means that both parties to a
negotiation have studied the proposed activities, are informed about
the risks involved, and agree how they intend to handle them. Hence
"risk-aware" instead of "safe."
The "sane" part of SSC is
very subjective. Who's making the call? Person A might think fisting
is insane; persons B and C might enjoy it very much. "Sane" always
reminds me of Pat Paulsen's campaign slogan from the old Smothers
Brothers show: "Vote for Paulsen; he's not insane!" If you go around
constantly reassuring folks that you're not crazy, they'll start to
wonder. I've heard "sane" interpreted as: "able to distinguish
fantasy from reality" and "not intoxicated," which are both
perfectly valid, though the latter is similar to the above -- you
don't go around constantly reassuring folks that you're not drunk,
either.
"Consensual" is the crux, implying negotiation which
implies being able to distinguish fantasy from reality, as well as
dealing responsibly with risk factors. If you don't know the risk
factors, if you don't know what will happen in reality, then you
don't know what you're consenting to. Meaningful negotiation must
always take place on the common ground of consensus reality.
The "kink" part went in to make a snappy acronym and because
SSC doesn't tell you what you should be SSC about. Safe, Sane, and
Consensual trout fishing?
Alluding to the rack, an
archetypal torture instrument,has been criticized, but to me it
signifies our transformation of atrocity into ecstasy, and admits
that though we may enjoy some dark fantasies,we realize them
harmlessly.
RACK is admittedly more confrontational than
SSC. It's defiant, the same way the GLBT community uses "queer."
RACK allows us the freedom to have non-PC fantasies. Don't a lot of
us enjoy non-consensual fantasies, either from the top side or the
bottom side? We enjoy them in our literature; we may very well enjoy
them while we play.
But we act them out responsibly and
consensually.
****** Permission is granted to reproduce
and distribute this essay, as long as it's reproduced in its
entirety and is attributed to: Gary Switch, Contributing Editor,
Prometheus magazine, GarySwitch@aol.com.
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